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		<title>Off I go</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 13:01:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>So I head off again to South Africa. I&#8217;m really looking forward to it.  May be the last time that I can do this. I think I may need to go back to the old vacation travel. Anyway Ive taken considerately less stuff and will leave  a lot of it there. Ive been trying to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I head off again to South Africa. I&#8217;m really looking forward to it.  May be the last time that I can do this. I think I may need to go back to the old vacation travel. Anyway Ive taken considerately less stuff and will leave  a lot of it there. Ive been trying to get down what a weeks worth of stuff looks like. This is a pretty short trip I think.   We&#8217;ll see how that works out.  The last two weeks have been a blur of impromptu meetings and birthday celebrations (oh by the way my b-day is on the 11. Ive celebrated in South Africa the last three years. I usually am at camp but I guess that has changed.  I also am trying to bring just one pair of shoes. Yup one pair. I do have some flip flops. I usually bring two but this time im giving my self a challenge.  I think I will mostly be documented this trip..Ive asked about who is going and do I need to round up folks etc etc.  I dont even know who has my medical forms. So we&#8217;ll see how that goes. Lets just hope no one asks me any questions other than do I need to hold on to this form.  Im not flying delta  so no miles for me. Dont know if i&#8217;ll keep my status which I only like for the free upgrades. I may make a small trip just to keep that up. Oh I think im going to go to Jamaica for a couple days to see mom then may go back to see my dad. Ah divorce is so nice.  So im off.</p>
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		<title>A little taste</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 01:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Sunday continues to be the most segregated times of the week.   Every sunday morning our respected races go to our church. We take our places and talk about changing the world.  I think we would chalk it up to we all worship different so this is our way of worshiping next to people who  and feel like [...]]]></description>
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<p>Sunday continues to be the most segregated times of the week.   Every sunday morning our respected races go to our church. We take our places and talk about changing the world.  I think we would chalk it up to we all worship different so this is our way of worshiping next to people who  and feel like us.  Enlightened  ones realize that all black, chinese, white, etc. dont all think the same.  That&#8217;s about as stupid as you are trying to talk black or why you trying to act white.  Take the company I work for. When I am asked hey can you take more pictures of minorities to show all races I say &#8220;well I would be taking pictures of the same groups&#8221; and then I say they dont come.  For the few that do come you may ask do I go out of my way to encourage them and welcome them. I  would ask welcome them to what.  I have pitched people of color groups on the stage only to be told that our guest arent into that stuff.  I almost went too far.  I have lived in a weird sort of world all my life.  I was born in Jamaica to great parents that divorced when I was in I think 6th grade it was uneventful. I dont even remember it. Anyway they taught me to be me.  Never pushed who I should be with or even question me about who I dated.  That is another story. Anyway I never understand why people are so scared to talk about race. Its usually people who never had to deal with it so they ask what&#8217;s the big deal. When when you&#8217;ve been called a nigger on the basketball court you end up having to deal with it.  When I walk in downtown birmingham you can feel it.  Race is still factor.  Every time you that hair stands up on the back of your neck when you take the wrong turn in a neighborhood. Race is still a factor.  Our company does try. They really do. I am proud of that. But there is still room.  That goes from the music we put on the stage to the people we have speak to students to even how the message is crafted.  So what do I think of Race Im voting for Obama because he&#8217;s black. Gotcha.  Oh and I&#8217;m not scared of talking about Politics either.  Im proud to be in a country where we can have a knock down drag out fight with politics and no one has to die.  I know strange to be proud of that but I am.   Ok Im at the end of the line. I&#8217;m proud of my self  I think.  Look people. Be proud of what we have done and will do.  Tune next time when we talk Colonialism and how it still effects Africa today. More than you know it.  I&#8217;m also still adhering to my no read policy so if there is a didn&#8217;t that should be a did. you know what I mean. </p>
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		<title>Back to the start</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 03:14:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Well it has almost been a year and it has taken me some time to get back to writing about what is going on in my life. Towards the end I just started posting pictures. I didnt event give them a title I just posted them and that was it that. Well I will try [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well it has almost been a year and it has taken me some time to get back to writing about what is going on in my life. Towards the end I just started posting pictures. I didnt event give them a title I just posted them and that was it that. Well I will try not to do that too much. Sometimes I guess I figure the picture is enough. Tonight Im watching deer hunter. Didnt know too much about it but I know now why it won awards. It would be what most people would call a war movie. Terrible thing what war does. ANyway I&#8217;ve been doing that and working on this at the same time. I dont even feel like I have been living lately. Working during the week and on the weekends doesnt do too much for me being able to make much of my life.  I must clarify something or at least change my view. I once was a person that said kids were not for me. THat having children was not in my cards.   Over the past years I would say that that feeling isnt there.  I think it was more of a fear of thinking what would I do with a kid.  I guess we all have that some time or another.  Marriage I think would also be one of those things I would say what do I know the son of divorce.  I guess I could tell you what not to do.   I think being older I would do better at it. had a little time to think about it.  mmmm</p>
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		<title>What would Jesus really do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2007 13:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I read this today. Why does it seem that churches aren&#8217;t the first to take on social issues. Do I agree totally with this article and take it on as my own. No not really. </p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read this today. Why does it seem that churches aren&#8217;t the first to take on social issues. Do I agree totally with this article and take it on as my own. No not really. </p>
<p>By Roland Martin<br />CNN Contributor</p>
<p>Editor&#8217;s note: Roland Martin is a CNN contributor and talk-show host on WVON-AM in Chicago, Illinois. He is the author of &#8220;Listening to the Spirit Within: 50 Perspectives on Faith.&#8221;</p>
<p>NEW YORK (CNN) &#8212; When did it come to the point that being a Christian meant caring about only two issues,­ abortion and homosexuality?</p>
<p>Ask the nonreligious what being a Christian today means, and based on what we see and read, it&#8217;s a good bet they will say that followers of Jesus Christ are preoccupied with those two points.</p>
<p>Poverty? Whatever. Homelessness? An afterthought. A widening gap between the have and have-nots? Immaterial. Divorce? The divorce rate of Christians mirrors the national average, so that&#8217;s no big deal.</p>
<p>The point is that being a Christian should be about more than abortion and homosexuality, and it&#8217;s high time that those not considered a part of the religious right expose the hypocrisy of our brothers and sisters in Christianity and take back the faith. And those on the left who believe they have a &#8220;get out of sin free&#8221; card must not be allowed to justify their actions.</p>
<p>Many people believe we are engaged in a holy war. And we are. But it&#8217;s not with Muslims. The real war &#8212; ­ the silent war ­&#8211; is being engaged among Christians, and that&#8217;s what we must set our sights on.</p>
<p>As we celebrate Holy Week, our focus is on the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. But aren&#8217;t we also to recommit ourselves to live more like Jesus? Did Jesus spend his time focusing on all that he didn&#8217;t like, or did Jesus raise the consciousness of the people to understand love, compassion and teach them about following the will of God?</p>
<p>As a layman studying to receive a master&#8217;s in Christian communications, and the husband of an ordained minister, it&#8217;s troubling to listen to &#8220;Christian radio&#8221; and hear the kind of hate spewing out of the mouths of my brothers and sisters in the faith.</p>
<p>In fact, I&#8217;ve grown tired of people who pimp God. That&#8217;s right; we have a litany of individuals today who are holy, holy, holy, sing hallelujah, talk about how they love the Lord, but when it&#8217;s time to walk the walk, somehow the spirit evaporates.</p>
<p>A couple of years ago I took exception to an e-mail blast from the Concerned Women for America. The group was angry that Democrats were blocking certain judges put up for the federal bench by President Bush. It called on Americans to fight Democrats who wanted to keep Christians off the bench.</p>
<p>So I called and sent an e-mail asking, &#8220;So, where were you when President Clinton appointed Christian judges to the bench? Were they truly behind Christian judges, or Republican Christian judges?</p>
<p>Surprise, surprise. There was never a response.</p>
<p>An African-American pastor I know in the Midwest was asked by a group of mostly white clergy to march in an anti-abortion rally. He was fine with that, but then asked the clergy if they would work with him to fight crack houses in predominantly black neighborhoods.</p>
<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s really your problem,&#8221; he was told.</p>
<p>They saw abortion as a moral imperative, but not a community ravaged by crack.</p>
<p>If abortion and gay marriage are part of the Christian agenda, I have no issue with that. Those are moral issues that should be of importance to people of the faith, but the agenda should be much, much broader.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking for the day when Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson, Joyce Meyer, James Dobson, Tony Perkins, James Kennedy, Rod Parsley, &#8221; Patriot Pastors&#8221; and Rick Warren will sit at the same table as Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Cynthia Hale, Eddie L. Long, James Meek, Fred Price, Emmanuel Cleaver and Floyd Flake to establish a call to arms on racism, AIDS, police brutality, a national health care policy, our sorry education system.</p>
<p>If they all say they love and worship one God, one Jesus, let&#8217;s see them rally their members behind one agenda.</p>
<p>I stand here today not as a Republican or a liberal. And don&#8217;t bother calling me a Democrat or a conservative. I am a man,­ an African-American man ­who has professed that Jesus Christ is Lord, and that&#8217;s to whom I bow down.</p>
<p>If you concur, it&#8217;s time to stop allowing a chosen few to speak for the masses. Quit letting them define the agenda.</p>
<p>So put on the full armor of God because we have work to do.</p>
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